像“家庭成员的大病”这样的负面事件在压力清单上排得靠前。但是一些能改变生活的积极事件，比如婚姻，也同样排得较前。

Negative events like "serious illness of a family member" were high on the list, but so were some positive life-changing events, like marriage.

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你宁愿急急忙忙的完成待办事件清单的所有事情，还是切实的享受生活呢？

Would you rather spend it rushing around to finish your to-do list, or actually enjoying yourself?

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