或者你不停地汲取积极向上的思想，或者消极的负面的东西会自动填满你的大脑。

Either you constantly feed your mind with positives or negativity automatically fills the vacuum.

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但我们是都可以克服所有的消极面，负面的想法，从而达成我们的目标。

And we can all overcome those negative destructive thoughts that hold us back from reaching our goals.

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假如我们的父母是消极负面的，那么我们也就会在大部分时间里自责。

If our parenting was primarily negative, we will tend to be self critical much of the time.

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And against that, we could have the pessimists who say, "The negative side especially once we throw in the negative interaction effects, the negative side is so great that " that it would be better never to have been born at all."

而与此相反，可能有悲观主义者说，“消极的方面,特别是我们一旦把负面相互影响考虑进去，消极的方面就会变得,让我们觉得还是压根别出生的好“

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