要注意自己的态度。要是找不到什么可以称赞的地方，就不要说了。

Do monitor your attitude and if you can't find something positive to say about a subject refrain from saying anything.

youdao

当然我们要随时注意自己的态度，坚持原则，同时尽量避免同他们争吵。

Of course we have to watch our attitude all the time and try to stand our ground without quarreling with them.

youdao

在选战期间他对自己的个人主张的表述给人的感觉一直是八面玲珑、态度暧昧，如果大体上看是主张变革的(正如选民和媒体直到现在才开始注意到)。

His relation to his own proposals during the campaign has been pleasantly noncommittal, if generally liberal (as voters and the media are only now getting around to noticing).

youdao