不是她有问题，就是我有问题或者是环境等其它有问题。
Either one of them or I had problems or there are other problems in other aspects.
有些读者提出，你女儿真正的问题是，她有一个很要强的妈妈，甚至替她写信提出这个问题。
Some readers have suggested that your daughter's real problem is that she has a pushy mother who writes in on her behalf.
你该告诉她的是：会给她一些时间；只要她有问题，你就会回来。
Instead you tell her you will give her time and come back in case she has questions.
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