当他掌控你的生命时，生命已不再是你的。

When he controls your life, it's no longer your life.

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当你开始报复或想方设法去报仇的时刻也就意味着你放弃掌控自己生命了。

The moment you start retaliating or seeking revenge is the same moment you give up control of your life.

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但在追寻热情的方向上，即使是很小的改变，都可以让你对自由的感觉，对生命的掌控，还有快乐，有非常不同的感受。

But even small changes in the direction of your passion can make a huge difference in your sense of freedom, control of your life, and happiness.

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