一个人应该永不放弃，总会有人愿意拉你一把的。

One should never give up for there is always someone ready to give you a hand.

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⊙、若自己不做出一点样子，人家想拉你一把都不知你的手在哪里。

If you don't make some way, somebody else want to pull you a hand all don't know where is your hand.

youdao

有时候，你觉得这个人在你陷入困境时可能会踢你一脚时，反而是拉你一把的人。

Sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.

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