如果我继续学习，你们要拿我怎样？

If I go on studying, what will you do to me?

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Lyubomirsky博士建议，“有时候，你正在思考'万一我被解雇了'之后要怎样做，放过自己吧，不要继续对着你自己发愁，去跟亲朋戚友说吧。”

But once you've made a plan for "what if I get laid off," don't continue to fret about it in your head or talk about it to others, advises Dr. Lyubomirsky.

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除非其中一方明确表示要结束这段婚姻，我一般都会问他们，他们想怎样让这段婚姻继续下去。

Unless one partner definitely wants out of the marriage, I start by asking a couple how their marriage can continue.

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