不过，我希望——也相信——她们会以自己的方式像外公那样处理好手头的一切，也会懂得多年前我外公教给我的道理。

But I hope-i believe-they will in their own way be able to cope as well as my grandfather coped, and learn the lesson my grandfather taught me all those years ago.

youdao

我很会控制好自己和也会处理好事情，我也学会了权衡事情的利弊。

I'm very controlled and processed and that how I have to be I weigh up the outcomes.

youdao