你可能会想：“节食对我来说没那么重要，反正无论如何我也做不到。”

You may think: "dieting wasn't that important to me and I wouldn't make it anyhow."

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然后你得出各种不愉快的结论，为了保护你的自我感觉，你开始给目标打折，可能会想，“嗯，节食没那么重要啦，反正我怎么都做不到的。”

Then you begin to draw all kinds of unpleasant conclusions about yourself. To protect your sense of yourself, you begin to discount the goal.

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真希望你在我心里没那么重要。

I really hope you did not mind so important.

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When I said that questions are important and answers matter less, I am not coming from a point of relativism.

当我说问题重要而答案没那么重要时，我不是从相对论的观点来说的。

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