但最终在一次电话交谈中，他的愤怒、指责、漫骂是如此的失去理智，我也明白了问题的源头在他而不是我。

Finally, though, during one telephone conversation, his anger, accusations, and name-calling became so clearly irrational that I knew our dispute had its origins with him and not with me.

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因为在他感到悲伤或者是愤怒的时候，我允许他画画。他想把这个本子送给我以表示感谢。

Because I let him draw when he was sad or angry, he wanted me to have the book to say "thank you."

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