对于那些有孩子的年轻女性，我常对她们说，一旦她们有了孩子，她们最重要的工作便是抚养自己的孩子。

And for young women with children, I often tell them that their most important job, once they have children, is the raising of their children.

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在我的帖子《得到你想要的爱……绵绵不绝》里，我提及了自己婚姻中用到的一个最行之有效的亲昵良策，那便是写情书。

In my post, "Getting the love You Want... Over and Over Again," I mention one of the most powerful intimacy tools in my marriage, which is writing a love letter.

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话说回来，在当初那样的情况下，即便是我自己，或者我的孩子，或者我的朋友，做出了那样的事，也不是不能原谅的。

Also, if my own self, or my own children, or my own friends did such a thing in their life, it's easy to excuse it if the circumstances were as I described.

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If I want to persuade you that I love you, would never leave you, you can trust me with everything, it may be a superb tactic for me to believe it.

如果我想让你相信我爱你，永远都不离开你，你什么都可以信任我，或许最好的策略便是我自己对此深信不疑。

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