它们会搞砸我们的事，阻碍我们的脚步。

They can screw us up and set us back.

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除非我们任由失败拖累我们的脚步，否则失败无法阻止我们前进。

Failures stop us only if we let them.

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这不是谁满意谁不满意的问题，确实是某些外界力量阻挡了我们的脚步。

All of this is tied to the feeling of not being satisfied, of thinking that some force is blocking the way to a goal we think we deserve.

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And wilderness experience allows us to step back, and say were we really or not in control of all this as much as we think we are.

野外的体验让我们缓慢了脚步，来看一看我们是否真的控制着一切,如同我们所想的一样。

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