如果我们说的话有两个理解方式，并且其中的一种会让你生气或者伤心，那么其实我们的意思是另外一种。

If something we said can be interpreted two ways, and one of the ways makes you sad and angry, we meant the other one.

youdao

让我们重温一下上面提到的概念，这样你可以更好的理解我的意思。

Let's go over some of these elements mentioned above so you can get a better idea of what I mean.

youdao

我们会祝福彼此，还会讨论一些别的事情，但我们的交流并不频繁，我想你能够理解，我的意思是，就像你，你会联系你的前妻吗？

We've exchanged good wishes and all that sort of stuff to each other, but not a constant thing. I mean, do you talk to your ex-wife?

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