“这对患者来说可能是一种非常痛苦的经历，”斯考特教授说，“我们倾向于对自己的声音无保留的接受，但大众并不喜欢听起来与自己不一样的声音。”

"It can be a very distressing experience for people," says Prof Scott. "We tend to take our voices for granted but people don't like it when they don't sound like themselves."

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因此有可能我们不是真正喜欢辣椒带来的痛苦，我们只是让自己的感觉迟钝了：曾经的痛苦不堪现在变成了若有若无。

So maybe, then, instead of actually liking the pain, we're merely desensitising ourselves: what used to be really painful is now just sort of painful.

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所以说智慧，就是了知真相，而真相是让人痛苦的，真相往往是我们所不喜欢的。

So wisdom, understanding the truth, but the truth hurts, truth is not always something that we like.

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In our affections, in our caring, who we like, who we feel close to, whose pain bothers us, we are not indiscriminate.

我们对他人的喜爱，对他人的关心，我们喜欢谁，与谁亲近，在乎谁的痛苦，并非一视同仁的。

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