我没有去追求我所向往的生活，反而在为我不想要的生活而奋斗。

But instead of chasing the life I dreamed of, I kept chasing the one I didn’t want.

youdao

如果我想要，我必须得到它；如果我不想要，它们不能出现在我的生活中。

I must get what I want, when I want it; and I must not get what I don't want.

youdao

举个例子，比如说我吧，如果要问我是不是想要个孩子，我的回答是我也不知道，从某种角度说，我不想让我的孩子影响我的浪漫生活。

Like me, for instance. Do I want children? My answer is: I don't know. But somewhere along the way, I decided to not let my biology dictate my romantic life.

youdao