我想我事实上是一个彻头彻尾的失败者，虽然我所有的朋友都认为我是一个成功的商人。

I've concluded that I am, in fact, a failure, even though all my friends call me a successful business owner.

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例如：如果你总是告诉你自己我是一个失败者那么你的潜意识将会总引领着你走向这种会变成现实的失败状态。

If you always tell yourself "I'm a loser" then your subconscious will always guide you towards things that will make that statement true.

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我能在哥伦比亚大学开几堂讲座，而且继续在音乐学校工作；但作为一个学者，我是一个沮丧的失败者。

I was able to pick up a few courses at Columbia as a lecturer and kept my job at the music conservatory, but as an academic, I am a dismal failure.

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