一旦你意识到没有人能带走真实的你或者改变你，那么你将按照自己的想法去生活，你与他们的关系将更加的完满。

Once you realize no one can take who you are or change who you are, then you will relax into your rhythm and your relationships will be more fulfilling.

youdao

吃饭的时候，我很客气地说了些无聊的话——没有提到我们的过去，没有提到我的感觉，没有提到自己内心真实的想法，那时我处于直人史蒂夫模式。

At dinner, I made polite, boring talk at the table - no mention of our past, of my feelings, of what was really on my mind. I was in Straight Steve mode.

youdao

如果这是你真实的想法……好吧，没有其他方法来表述的更好些：你的想法是错误的。

If that describes your own thinking... well, there's no way to put this nicely: you are wrong.

youdao