童年的怨恨最容易渗透到心底里去，我们无法责怪他们。

Maybe the hate from childhood is easy to sink into one's heart and it may not be blamed too much.

youdao

但是，每每看到表弟的时候，(我是个从小就看得到鬼的人)却怎么也从他的脸上看不见任何责怪与怨恨。

But... whenever I saw the expression on my cousin (I have seen ghost all my life.), I have never seen his grief nor sorrow for dying so young.

youdao