宽恕并不意味着你可以把过去抹去或者忘记曾经发生过的，它甚至不是意味着人们可以改变他们的习惯- - - - -你不能控制那些。

Forgiveness does not mean you erase the past, or forget what has happened. It doesn't even mean the other person will change his behavior - you cannot control that.

youdao

就像我不愿意失去过去我那些美好的回忆一样，我也不想忘记其中的艰辛和困苦。

And just as I would never want to lose any of the beautiful memories I have from those years, I also don't want to forget some of the troubles I endured.

youdao

所以，我们有必要重温过去，不过这次，请跟随那些幸存者的脚步，因为他们是永远不会忘记那一天的。

So maybe it helps to retrace our steps but this time fall in behind those who survived the day and never left it behind.

youdao