如果有，那么就是你该清楚的估量一下你生命中已经拥有的东西并为之庆幸一下的时候了。

If so, then it is time for you to get clear and appreciate what you already have in your life.

youdao

但愿你的对象能够解读这些信号，但最烂俗的情节就是他们说很庆幸最终找到了你，但你却在想“您还是继续找吧！”

Hopefully, your date will be able to read your signals, but in the worst case scenario where they are saying they are so happy to have found you at last and you are thinking, "check please!"

youdao

不要衔恨他人惟有在须要你的功夫才想起你。你该为本身如蜡烛般的生活而深感庆幸。在他们身处漆黑时想到的就是你。

Don't feel poisonous thnear the people rememprover you only when they need you. Feel privileged thnear the you seem to prove similar to a candle. You come to their mind when they're in the dark.

youdao