那就是其背后的实际想法。

That's really the idea behind it.

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这两人都报告说，他们喜欢跟关押他们的人说些与自己实际想法截然相反的话。

Both men reported that they enjoyed telling their captors the opposite of what they were thinking.

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如果你就是那种对人要求苛刻、消极，对自己的能力有着不切实际想法的人，那么你的孩子就很可能是你的复制品。

If you're excessively harsh on yourself, pessimistic, or unrealistic about your abilities and limitations, your child may eventually mirror you.

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