如果你是那些认为坐下来把话好好说清楚，就是解决争斗的方法的人中的一员，那么，试一下这种方法，它的结果将会超出你的想象。

If you're one of those who thinks sitting down and talking things out is the only solution to a fight, try this method out, the results could just surprise you in unexpected ways.

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奥洛夫女士说，“但是如果你并不清楚注意力问题是根本原因，那么你就会开始认为这个人并不关心你，气愤与厌烦也就开始累积。”

Orlov said.“But if you don't know that distraction is the issue, you start to think the person doesn't care about you, and anger and resentment build up.

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如果你每天只是走过场，对你认为讨厌的工作不愿付出努力，你清楚的知道自己将不会得到满足。

If you're going to go through the motions every day, putting minimal effort into the job you say you hate (or, worse, feel ambivalent about), you will definitely not feel fulfilled.

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