好的，如果他们不爱你了但你还爱他们，显然这变成了，一种占有而不是爱。

Ok, if they stop loving you and you love them, obviously it turns into more of an obsession instead of love.

youdao

如果你嫁给了一个和蔼的、实际的银行家，你会因为失去了那个自由的、比起爱你来似乎更爱旅行的艺术家而永远遗憾么？

If you pick the genial, down-to-earth banker, will you forever regret letting go of that free-spirited artist who loves traveling as much as you?

youdao

如果你这样做，我便会爱你，其中潜藏的威胁是，如果你不这样做，我就收回对你的爱。

Do this, and I'll love you. And the implied threat, Don't do this, and I withhold my love for you.

youdao

Good even to be aware of what they don't To be aware of that, right. But most importantly, think about that your passion are about 'coz if you do what you love, the money will follow.

无私得自己都没意识到,对，没有意识到那些钱，但最重要的是，要思考你对什么充满了激情,因为如果你做的是你爱做的事，钱跟着就会来。

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