我们这些同性恋，至少在成长过程中有了这样的优势----爱是无法估量和难以掌握的困难，因为我们是大自然产生的反常的怪人，病态的误差。

We gay people at least have the advantage of being brought up to expect the world of love to be imponderably and unmanageably difficult, for we are perverted freaks and sick aberrations of nature.

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还是说做好的解决方法是给他严厉的爱并教会他照顾好自己，尽管那对他来说是一件很困难的事呢？

Or would it be best to give him some tough love and teach him to take care of himself, even though it might be hard for him to begin with?

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派格·诺普洛斯、杰西卡·伍德以及他们的同事最近在爱荷华大学做了一项研究，结果显示，即使是从大脑结构上来分析，想要理清先天与后天的纠缠也是十分困难的。

Recent research by Peg Nopoulos, Jessica Wood and colleagues at the University of Iowa illustrates just how difficult it is to untangle nature and nurture, even at the level of brain structure.

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