哀而不伤，汉语成语，拼音是āi ér bù shāng，哀：悲哀；伤：伤害。意思是形容感情有节制；另形容诗歌、音乐优美雅致，感情适度。比喻做事适中，没有过度或不及的地方。出自《论语·八佾》。
它不像中原文化讲的，叫做乐而不淫、哀而不伤、怨而不谤，一切都是中庸为美的。
It is not the Central Plains culture speaking, called the joyous but not indecent, mournful but not distressing, without resentment and slander, all the beauty.
偶尔和小妖来坐坐，喜欢那个眼神淡淡的长发歌手，声音干净温暖，落在心里有种哀而不伤却心存眷恋的心悸。
Occasionally and small demon to drop in anytime, like the eyes light hair singer, voice and landed in heart clean warm gutty cry without injury but be sentimentally attached palpitation.
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