可事实常常是，孩子或爱人和我们交谈时，得到的只是漠不关心的点头或略小的认可，要么就是被我们轻视或取笑，好像他们的话一文不值。

Too often our children or spouse might talk to us but are only met with a disinterested nod or other small acknowledgment, or we'll make light or fun of what they say, as if it's not important.

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尧说：「我对那些穷困无路可走的人，从来不敢轻视，总是设法接近他们，并了解他们的苦楚；

Yao said, "I never look down on the poor, always managing to approach them and learn about their difficulties and pain."

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