不要一上来就大喇喇的说出来，而且要确定即使他是个直男，(听了这些话)他也会继续把你当朋友，尊重你尤其是你对他的感情。

Just dont come off too strong and make sure to say that if hes not gay you hope he will still be your friend and respect you for being true to your own feelings.

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And finally, and most important-- these others have been pretty straightforward-- but what has not been straightforward is something that you might listen to many, many times and not be aware of, and that is chord changes.

最后,也是最重要的途径,上述的三种途径都非常直截了当,不过也有些不那么直接的东西,即使你听了成千上百遍,也不一定会注意到的是和弦的变化

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