当不幸降临在他人头上时，他们往往都能像智者一样劝慰别人；

When adversity befalls others, you tend to comfort them like a thinker.

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我们总是像智者一样劝慰别人，像傻子一样折磨自己。

We always encourage others like a wise man, like a fool to torture yourself.

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当然，也有人出其不意的离开，有人扔下几句劝慰的话撒手而去，有人在苦痛中折磨着自己也折磨着别人，最后折磨够了—驾鹤西游。

Of course, the departure of some surprise, it was dropped a few shoulders then give them away, someone in pain afflict themselves afflict others, the final tortured enough - riding crane West.

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