积极的应对意味着再次认识和接纳创伤性经历所带来的影响，然后集中全力去改善。

Active coping means recognizing and accepting the impact of a traumatic experience and then taking concrete action to improve things.

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So, you would expect a child who just grew up with a mother or just grew up to be a father--with a father to be in some sense psychologically damaged by that, failing to go through the normal psychosexual stages.

你会看到由单身母亲抚养长大的孩子,或由单身父亲抚养长大的孩子,在某种意义上,会因此而形成心理创伤，从而无法正常地经历所有的性心理阶段。

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