从操作上讲，你可以把亲密关系想象成你和这个人分享秘密，分享那些你不跟其他人分享的信息。

Operationally, you could think of intimacy as you share secrets, you share information with this person that you don't share with anybody else.

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你可以写原创文章并与读者分享你旅行的秘密。

You can create original (原创) articles and share your traveling secrets with your readers.

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我并不急于分享我的秘密或者我梦想中的女孩子，但你很幸运我没有现金了，要不是我失去了我所有的现金没有人能够知道我的秘密。

I am not anscious to share my secrets or my dream girls, but Lucky for you I ran out of cash. If I hadn't lost all my cash no one would ever know my secret.

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I don't want to really know that much about you, I don't want to really share anything of me with you, but I am committed to maintaining this physical attraction to you" Well, that's what Sternberg calls "fatuous love."

关于你，我不想了解太多，也不想和你分享我的秘密，但是我承诺,和你保持这种肉体关系“,斯腾伯格把这种感情叫做愚蠢式爱情“

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