你可以选择如何对待别人。你可以是慷慨的，周到的和关怀的对待你周围的人，也可以是自私的，自我为中心的，并且常常把自己的兴趣放在首位。

You have a choice in how you behave towards others. You can be generous, considerate and caring to the people around you or you can be selfish, self centered and always put your own interests first.

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不过，如果我真的有机会花更多时间接触我的一对儿女以及他们的学校，我倒是有兴趣看看我们以母亲为中心的家长群体将如何适应。

If I did have the chance to spend more time being involved with my daughter and son and their school, though, I'd be interested to see how our mother-centered parenting community would adapt.

youdao

如果一个人对世界完全丧失兴趣，只想扔下所有，以自我为中心，这难道是无私的表现吗？

If he loses interest in the world to the extent that he is quite willing to let it go hang, for all he CARES, where is the evidence of spiritual unselfishness in this?

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