我只是想说，你也应该告诉自己真相，因为以这一回答为基础做出的决定可能会影响到你人生的进程。

I only mean that you might as well tell yourself the truth, because the decision you make based on your answer could affect the course of your life.

youdao

我并不是说忠告都是错误的，但是如果你没有质疑它并且没有理解为什么它是正确的，那么你可能最终会为自己做出一个非常糟糕的决定。

I'm not saying that bit of advice is wrong, but if you don't question it and understand why it's true, you may end up making a very bad decision for yourself.

youdao

不过我为自己做出的决定感到高兴，铁打的营盘流水的兵，生活还要继续，你必须接受这一点。

But I'm happy with the decision I've taken because life goes on, players come and go and you have to accept that.

youdao

And similar is a leader, sometimes you don' t have all the information that you want, you've gotta be willing to say " i am gonna go with the best information that i have" i am gonna make the best decision that i can and if we were wrong, we admit it, and we fix it, but we won't just stand there.

同样，作为一名领导者，有时你无法取得,所有的相关信息，你要愿意主动地说,“我将最大可能地,利用手上的资料来工作”,“我要做出自己能够做出的最好的决定”,如果我们犯了错，就虚心承认而且设法改正，但我们不会袖手旁观。

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