但是请记住，孩子们能从你的所作所为——而不是夸夸其谈中学到，对你来说什么是最重要的。

But remember that your children learn about what matters most to you by what you do, not what you say.

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对投资者而言，这意味着你必须对你的所作所为深思熟虑，并且确保你的决定都必须是循序渐进的，而不能过于激进和猛烈。

For investors, that means being deliberate in everything you do and making sure that all your decisions are gradual and incremental, rather than sudden and drastic.

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但是如果你专注于自己的目标，忽略其他人的所作所为(除非在某种程度上你能从别人身上学到什么)，竞争就不再是一个赚钱的理由。

But if you stay focused on your own goals and ignore what the other guy is doing (except to the extent that you can learn from it), competition is no longer a factor.

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