我认为问题的一个基本原理在于：快乐的多少取决于你对快乐的定位。

Joi: I think one of the basic fundamental problems is that happiness has been measured by what I would call pleasure.

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我理解你的感觉，关于你自己的家庭的不快乐和未解决的问题，但是我再次请求你检查为什么这意味著你不可以找到与你自己的孩子在一起的快乐？

I understand that you have feelings of unhappiness and unresolved issues with your own family but, again, I ask you to examine why that means that you cannot find happiness with your own children?

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我将这些小小的快乐事列了一个清单，或许这将有助你观看并且理解我的所指。这也会激发你关于快乐的一些灵感。

I thought it would be fun to compile a list of simple pleasures, to give you all some ideas of what I mean, and to spark other ideas of your own.

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I went to see a rich girl I knew. In the morning she pulled a hundred-dollar bill out of her silk stocking and said, "You've been talking of a trip to Frisco. That being the case, take this and go have your fun." So all of my problems were solved.

我去看望我以前认识的一位有钱的姑娘,到了早上，她从丝绸钱袋里取出一张100元的支票说：,“既然你那么向往到圣弗兰西斯科的旅行，拿着这个去寻找你的快乐吧“，这下我的问题全部解决了。

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I like it when you are laughing and smiling, and having fun.

当你大笑、微笑和开心的时候，我就很快乐。

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He wrote his son in 1704, he said, "I may die tomorrow, but be sure that you have little pleasure if you fail to follow my example.

他在一七零四年写给他的儿子信中说到,"我可能明天就死了,而如果你不能遵循我的的脚步,你是不会快乐的的

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