如果成功孕育宿敌，那么打败自己的敌人岂不是意味着你很失败？

If success breeds enemies, must one become unsuccessful to rid himself of enemies?

youdao

当然，最终我们所有人不得不为自己决定什么是失败的组成元素，但是如果你愿意的话，世界很愿意给你一堆的标准。

Ultimately, we all have to decide for ourselves what constitutes failure, but the world is quite eager to give you a set of criteria if you let it.

youdao

避免失败能让你觉得自己很成功。毕竟失败不是件好事，对吧？

Avoiding failure makes you feel successful. After all, failure is bad. Right?

youdao

So in this game if you just played it, it's quite likely you're going to end up uncoordinated, but if you have a little bit of leadership can say okay let's make sure this is where we coordinate, or let's make sure this is where we coordinate.

如果你们真的进行这个博弈的话,很可能就会协调失败,可是如果你有一点领导力的话,你可以说我们合作达成这个结果吧,或者我们达成这个结果也行

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