所以，当下次你拿起纸巾盒，趴在朋友的肩膀上哭泣，或在看电影时流泪时，停下来想一想我们为什么哭泣，以及哭泣意味着什么。

So the next time you reach a tissue box, or sob on a friend's shoulder, or shed tears at the movies, stop and reflect on why we cry and what it means to cry.

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如果他不是努力想要隐藏(哭泣)或者表现出窘迫，那可能意味着他想象有你陪在他身边一起经历人生的起起落落。

If he doesn't try to hide it or act embarrassed, that could mean he's envisioning going through a lot of ups and downs with you by his side.

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但是 自怜着哭泣可就会把你弄成一个狭隘的可怜人——无法原谅别人，总觉得自己被虐待，过分敏感而又多愁善感。

But weeping in self-pity will make you a small little person – someone who can’t forgive, who is always feeling ill-used, who gets incredibly touchingness and incredibly oversensitive.

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