你可以告诉他们，那些感觉并不是错误的，我们的情感表达受我们控制。

You can teach them that those feelings are never wrong and our expressions of feelings are in our control.

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相反，你可以告诉他们一些与工作不直接相关的事情。

Instead, you can tell them something that isn't directly related to the job position.

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你可以告诉他们你在另一个公司得到了一个职位。

You could tell them that you accepted a position at another company!

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they could just be screwing around, ? but why do they tell you?

他们可以只是随便玩玩，但为什么他们要告诉你？

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So when someone says, "your apartment, it's not so great." You can tell them these reasons and then you say,

所以当有人说，“你的公寓不怎么样”，你可以告诉他们上述理由，然后你说，

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And you'll be able to tell them when it occurs, how it happens, what it's related to.

而且你还可以告诉他们这事发生的时间、怎么发生的，以及它与什么事情有关。

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