我1月28日的博文会让你更为详细地了解我为什么这样想。

My Jan. 28 post will give you more details on why I thought that.

youdao

不只是外在的因素让我们自尊心不够或者觉得自己不好，也许你会觉得，这样自我否定的消极对话是你内心对自己的真正看法，那些都是生活中的琐事：我永远办不好这件事；我不值得；他们为什么想帮我？

Maybe you think all the negative-self talk is your way of being real with yourself. Little things like: I’ll never get it done, I don’t deserve that, why would they want to help me?

youdao

我能理解为什么你这样想，因为目前来讲，你们还不能看到这背后的礼物。

That is understandable, because right now, you don't see The Gift.

youdao

Now, why the Fat Lady? It's this mythical, incredibly humanly embodied-- whenever you see a fat lady in a novel, one of the first things you want to ask is: why does that person need to be excessively embodied?

现在，为什么是胖太太，这是个神话，人们呈现了，无论你什么时候看到一个胖太太,在小说里，你首先会想问：,为什么那个人需要被这样过多的描写呢？

耶鲁公开课 - 1945年后的美国小说课程节选