试着问问自己，如果你的目标是帮助别人而不是提高效率，你会怎么做。

Try asking yourself what you'd do if your goal were to be helpful rather than efficient.

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意大利设计师盖波里拉吉都尼说：“我们邀请了很多阿富汗妇女来观看演出，而不是做模特。”他和当地一个合作伙伴组织了这次发布会。

"We invited a lot of Afghan women to attend the show but not to be models," said Italian designer Gabriella Ghidoni, who organized the show with an Afghan partner.

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他们会依照你的意愿来帮你做决定，而不是按照他们认为的最好的决定来做。

They are bound to make the decisions that you want, not what they think is best.

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