“这样的生活模式能给孩子们一种感觉，就是未来是可以预知的，而当我们觉得可以预见未来的时候，我们就会开始放松，”她说，“灾难则会让我们意识到或者认为世界是深不可测的。”

"It gives them a sense that their world is predictable, and when we feel things are predictable, we begin to relax," she says. "a disaster makes us realize or think the world isn't predictable."

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我追寻爱的第二个原因是爱可以消解孤独——多么可怕的孤独，一眼望过世界的边缘便是深不可测而又没有生命的深渊，每每想起，便胆战心寒。

I have sought it, next, because it relieves loneliness-that terrible loneliness in which one shivering consciousness looks over the rim of the world into the cold unfathomable lifeless abyss.

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