让我朋友与众不同的是,他不是教女人们如何寻找爱,而是教她们怎么爱自己。
What makes my friend different is, instead of teaching women how to find love, he teaches them how to love themselves.
也许“爱”的一个更精确的定义是要(而不是需要)一个经常在你生活中的人,因为我理想地希望自己因为认识他而变得更美好。
Perhaps a more refined definition would be that" love" is wanting (but not needing)the other person in your life for always, because ideally I want to be a much better person for having known him.
那些需求或期盼自己得到任何东西的爱不是爱,真爱是完全的接受对方,并给予对方做他自己的自由。
Love which demands or expects anything for itself is not love but something else entirely. True love is total acceptance of the other, allowing him the freedom to be himself.
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