当一位亲密的朋友去世时，我们不能不难过。

When a close friend dies, we can't help but feel sad.

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和受到影响的人谈一谈。如果你无法告诉他们，那么至少和一位亲密的朋友说一说。

Talk to the person affected. If you can't tell them, at least talk to a close friend.

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比如，它可能是你一位亲密的朋友或家人经常非难你的经历，再比如一位同事或你的上司对你有了不符事实的成见。

It may be a thought of a close friend or family member constantly crtitisizing you or a co worker or your boss giving you an identity that isn't really alligned with who you truly are.

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