如果你在二十三岁左右还没结婚，就是一个彻底的失败者。

You were a total failure if you hadn't married by the time you were about twenty-three.

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一个男人穿着脏衬衫、不带领带出席一个派对或招待会上，或者没刮胡子就出现在公司会议上，那么大家肯定不会认为他是一个天才，相反，大家会认为他是一个没教养、叛逆者甚至会认为他是一个彻底的失败者。

The man who appears at a party or a reception in a not-too-clean plaid shirt, without tie, or at a business meeting with a two-days growth of beard will never be mistaken for an absent-minded genius.

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但是如果你只记得爱情而忽视其他事情，那么你将成为“完美”的情人和一个学习上彻底的失败者。

But if you forget everything else except love, then you will become a "perfect" lover and a definite loser in your studies.

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