我在头脑中看到这幅图画，感觉到对我绝不会再拥有的东西的那种痛苦，然后，已然面对过我的悲伤，它渐渐退去。

I saw this picture in my head, felt the anguish of what I'd never have again, and then, having faced my grief, it faded.

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即便现在，当我要面对一桌人同时一起谈论的那种嘈杂声音时，我依然处于某种痛苦的畏避状态。

I still kind of wince in pain when faced with the sound of a table of people all talking together.

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我没有想到我必须再去面对这样的痛苦。

I didn't expect to have to go through it all again.

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and in fact in art and in religion, if I don't recognize my pain and confusion and suffering, it is not, in my words, self-vific.

事实上，在艺术和宗教中，如果我不面对我的痛苦，疑惑和苦难，那么艺术就不是，用我的话讲，有现实意义的。

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