上了大学才知道，很多东西是可遇而不可求的，很多东西你只能拥有一次。

On the universities know that a lot of things can be met without resort, and a lot of things you can only have one.

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当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择别的。

When something caught hold in your hands, you can only have this thing, if you are willing to let go, you have the opportunity to choose another.

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当你手中抓住一件东西不放时，你只能拥有一件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会选择更多。

When you seize something tightly, you can only own the thing in your hands. If you are willing to let it go, there will be more opportunities which are waiting for you.

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We have the words of a language, the morphology, but all that gives you is "Dog," "Cup," "Chair," "House," "Story," "Idea."

语言也拥有词,即语态,但这些词只能让你知道,"狗","杯子","椅子,","房子","故事","想法"

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