是不是因为我们麻木了，结果我们认不清自己，而上帝自己已经警告过我们，并告诫这群傻子要爱自己的妻子？

Could it possibly be that we are such numb-nuts that we couldn’t figure it out for ourselves and God, Himself, had slap us upside the head and tell the numbskull in us to love our wives?

youdao

爱之初就是让我们爱的那些人保持他们自己的样子，而不是把他们改变成适合我们的样子。否则我们爱的只是从找出自己喜欢的影子。

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

youdao

我们只是喜欢一个深情的自己。我可以这么爱一个人，我是多么深情。分手时，我们伤心，不是为一段感情伤心，而是怜悯自己。

We just like to be soulful. I can love someone so much, I am so soulful. we grieve not for the romance, but for commiserating ourselves.

youdao