E. g: if the child is always withdrawing to get attention, the parents shall not go and ask: "Honey, what's wrong, why are you not happy?"

例如：如果孩子经常以不合群的方法来获得他人注意，家长不应该跑过去并问她：“亲爱的，怎么了，你为什么不高兴呢？”

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While this practice is more often than not followed to simplify workflow rather than born of malice, it raises serious questions about the accountability of individual members of IT when something in fact does go wrong, e.g. poor decision-making that results in resource downtime.

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