They regard them as a burden to live with although it is their duty to support parents when they grow up.
尽管赡养父母是每个成年人的义务，但他们却把父母当作负担。
Article 21 parents shall have the duty to bring up and educate their children; children shall have the duty to support and assist their parents.
第二十一条父母对子女有抚养教育的义务；子女对父母有赡养扶助的义务。
Instead of lecturing harassed parents about their duty to love their children "unconditionally", Heineman might do better to ask himself why so many of them can't cope and try to offer them support.
与其给疲惫的父母亲们开讲座告诉他们作为父母的职责是去“无条件的”爱他们的孩子，或许Heineman问问他自己为什么这么多的父母不能承担责任，有什么方法可以去提供帮助给他们。
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