I have found it an 18 year project to get to the point where I don't really care what other people think of my value in their eyes so I don't say it lightly when I point out this needs to be done.

我花了18年的时间去领悟这个道理，我不介意别人怎么看我存在的价值，因此当我需要别人来认可我的时候，我不会轻易说出来。

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I have found it an 18 year project to get to the point where I don’t really care what other people think of my value in their eyes so I don’t say it lightly when I point out this needs to be done.

我花了18年的光阴才做到不在乎自己在他人眼中的形象和价值。 所以我指出这些的时候是很郑重的。

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