I could tell you so much more, but instead let me share one last insight. Don't pity me or try to cure or change me.

我还想再说点儿，但是今天在这里，我再说这最后一件：请不要怜悯我，也不要试图治愈或者改变我。

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Third dmost common was the 'Why don't you like me?' approach, in which suitors try to determinewhy the parents disapprove and try to change their minds.

最常见的第三种是“你为什么不喜欢我?”策略。追求者试图判断家长为什么反对，并试图改变他们的想法。 。

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Third most common was the 'Why don't you like me?' approach, in which suitors try to determine why the parents disapprove and try to change their minds.

最常见的第三种是“你为什么不喜欢我？”策略。追求者试图判断家长为什么反对，并试图改变他们的想法。

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